Tuesday, November 23, 2010

So what is VerifyHim.com really?

For the last couple months of VerifyHim.com’s debut, we have gained quite a number of users who are relying on us for screening their clients. However, due to our aggressive marketing campaign, we do have a few negative reactions (we don’t know who they are and don’t really care). The negative reactions are all about accusing us as scammers and even working for LE. I do really appreciate our users who are pushing back and speaking positively of us in many boards and forums.

     I have to admit that we are quite a relatively new company in this industry. And our location as a Singapore-based company would understandably cast some doubts with a few people. However, Singapore has the most advanced networking infrastructure and very business friendly. We are proud to have our business here catering to the US/North America market (and soon many other markets). In fact, a lot of adult/escorts sites are not based in the US because of the increasing privacy violation of Big Brother.

     VerifyHim.com is based on deep data aggregating. We don’t rely much on databases. We want to connect the dots and provide our members as much information as possible about their clients. Deep data aggregation is a new technology and can confuse people. For example, a client has a handle on an escort board; he may also have a FaceBook account with similar name. VerifyHim.com would connect the relation and give a report. An escort can do the same thing without using VerifyHim.com but it can take hours or even days. Our goal is to help escorts making an informed decision before meeting a client. We are here to help.

     We have been working hard to gain the trust of our members and the escort community. Trust needs to be earned and we understand it more than anything. That’s why VerifyHim.com has been very responsive and supportive to our members’ needs and suggestions. Our members have given us the change and we work hard to fulfill it. I hope you will us a change too. Stay safe!

Monday, November 22, 2010

Escort Screening Tips

VerifyHi,.com's  Escort Screening Tips

Screening is a critical step in the escort business that often overlooked. It is for your safety and also the client's safety. You will spend time alone with a client after all, so it makes sense to verify him before the date. As in any business, there are always scammers and abusers lurking around for opportunities.

The good news is screening is easy. The not-so-good news is it may require some creativity on your part.  Asking a client for his personal information can be a sensitive issue for clients. You should try to make them feel comfortable and secure with an assuring voice. Telling them that is a standard procedure any serious escorts will require.

Here is the basic information that you should get from a client:
  • 1.     Full name - including the middle initial. You should also check this information against their ID on your date before doing anything else.
  • 2.     Phone number.
  • 3.     Primary Email Address.
  • 4.     Escort References (2 or more are preferably) - Make sure to ask when and where they met and any unique details to help reminding the escorts of their encounters.

You can use the first #1, #2 and #3 pieces of information with Verifyhim.com. Our full search will check his information against our blacklist database.  We also go through several escorts review sites, boards and forums to check his membership.  There are changes that he has posted a review or being reviewed by an escort.  If he has been a frequent with many escorts, the search will yield some results.

Verifyhim.com also searches public records and social networking sites (Facebook, Myspace...) for his information. This kind of information can be very helpful in verifying the client information. You should look for the consistency of his provided information and the search results. You should also contact the provided references for confirmation.

Look out for these signs of problems:
            + There are no records of his provided information.
            + All of his information (email, phone,...) seems to be created recently.
            + He is in our blacklist database.

There are also signs of behavior problems that you should pay attention to while communicating with your client:
            + He sends you a picture of his penis.
            + He wants to have a photo of your face and/or other revealing photos.
            + Really short email ("Are you still available?"), rude language...
            + Keep asking too many questions and stuffs.

If you encounter a time-waster once in a while, please report it to Verifyhim.com (By clicking on "Report an Incident!"). Registration for Verifyhim.com is FREE, so please join us and fight back. His information will be included in our blacklist, preventing him from doing so with other escorts. Don't see a client if you feel that something is not right about him.